Three things I believe

I just read something on Mike Cope's blog that I wish I had more courage to say. They are things that I believe and want to share. At the same time I know that most people I consider "family of faith" would judge me to be a heretic. A catch 22, between a rock and a hard place, a true crisis of faith and belief. Here it is:

1. There is a wider communion of saints than the Churches of Christ;
2. Women are called and should be encouraged to use their full talent in serving God;
3. Acappella music is a wonderful gift and my preference, but not necessarily "God's way."

Growing up in the Church of Christ was a wonderful experience. Having Godly parents that cared enough to give me the foundation of faith I now have is something I cherish. I wouldn't change much about my spiritual upbringing. I believe I have grown and matured because of my early exposure to scripture, older men and women of faith, and the daily reminders to be a Christian.

However, I was taught a very legalistic, judgemental, and graceless view of those outside our fellowship. That bothers me to this day. There are times when I still fight being that way. It is something that is ingrained in me. But I believe that I am less legalistic, less judgemental, and offering more grace than ever before. Still need some growth, but much better.

What do you think? Where are you in this paradigm? Am I a heretic? Or am I allowing God to change me through his word and will?